Ukuthandana kwamanenekazi amaningana akukhona ukuphatha. Kubo icishe ibe yinkinga ngaso sonke isikhathi ngoba cishe uzoba nomuntu ongaba nentshisekelo ngaye. Kwabesilisa abaningi ukuthola usuku, zonke izinto kufanele zifanele, kusuka kwisitayela sabo, usuku luyeza, ukudla okumnandi futhi movie ukujabulela. Konke kufanele kube kuhle. Amadoda amaningi kungenzeka angahlukani kangako namantombazane’ ukuthandwa nokufunwayo. Yingakho kunzima ukubenza bakwazi ukucela intokazi ukuthi ibabheke. Kahle, uma angafuna indlela yokushayisana nabesifazane futhi uyagula futhi ukhathele ngemibono efanayo yobudala yokuthandana yakudala yamadoda afana: ukumamatheka, dala ukunaka kwakhe okugcwele, mncome… blah, blah, uyazi ukuthi lezi zeluleko ezintathu ezifihliwe ezisendleleni yokuheha abesifazane abamangazayo ngokudlala ngothando kufanele kube wukuphefumula ngaphandle…
Noma Ngabe Imaski Uyaligqoka – Hhayi Kuphela Nge-Halloween?
Sometimes, abantu abangakhethi ngokuphelele ku-inthanethi, kudingeka uhlangane nomuntu othile ebusuku, noma usuku olulandelayo ngakho-ke abacabangi kakhulu mayelana “ukuqaphela wena” isigaba kuqala. Nansi into kodwa. Ngaphandle kweqiniso elingenakufinyeleleka lokuthi ucishe ubambe ukuxoxa ubheke ekhanda kuye ekhanda kungathi kukhona omunye umuntu ongamaziyo ngaphakathi kwezitolo, imakethe noma mhlawumbe ibha noma iklabhu, Akunobungozi obukhulu ekuqomeni kwe-inthanethi kunolunye uhlobo lokusetha komphakathi. Kufanele usebenzise ukwahlulela kwakho okuhle. funda lokhu Into eyodwa engabonakala kakhulu ubudlelwane ngokusebenzisa umuntu waseChina ozokukhombisa imizwa yakhe ijule kakhulu kunokwejwayelekile uma eqala ukukhombisa ukukhathalela impilo yakho. Kwisiko lamaShayina owesifazane waseShayina kufanele akhombise ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngenxa yamadoda akhe noma impilo yabafana bakhe, aze afike ngisho nokumnakekela lapho egula (futhi angiqondile ukumthengela ibhokisi le-Alka-Seltzer). Uma, ngisho nangesikhathi sezimpawu zokuthandana, ukhombisa ukukhathalela impilo yakho ngamazwi noma okunye kungenzeka ukuthi uzama ukukukhombisa imizwa yakhe ijule kakhulu kunokujwayelekile. Qaphela lokhu.
Njengoba ukwazi ukubona kunezindlela eziningi ongathandana ngazo ngenkathi ungumzali ongayedwa. Ukuqomisana nge-inthanethi kungaba mnandi, kuyajabulisa, indlela yokugcwalisa yokuthuthukisa izinkinga zakho ekudaleni impilo enhle yothando. Ungakwenza lokhu ngaphandle kokwenza isheduli egcizelela ukuthi uqale, ngaphandle kokubeka izingane zakho engozini abantu, futhi ungalokothi unikeze uhambo lwakho lwecala lakho ngalo lonke usuku oya ngalo.
