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Izingcingo ezikholelwayo zingavula indlela yokuxhumana kwesikhathi sangempela, Ma wathela 50,000 yuan ($7,amakhulu amane) — cishe yonke imali ayongile — ekwakheni uhlelo lokusebenza lobudlelwano bobungqingili. Ngabasebenzisi abanamandla abazizigidi ezingama-6.four, I-Blued uhlelo lokusebenza lokuphola izitabane eChina. Ngemuva kwalokho umfundi wesikole, ubeshaya ku-inthanethi ngesikhathi iso lakhe libamba uhlelo lokusebenza olunikeza ukuphola kobungqingili. Wayilanda futhi wavele wathola omunye umuntu oqhele ngamamitha ayikhulu. Ukusetshenziswa 'kwezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola kwezitabane' kanye nobudlelwano bayo nokuzijabulisa komuntu ngamunye nokuqonda kweqembu emadodeni alale nabesilisa. Ukungena kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zobudlelwano kungasabisa, ikakhulukazi uma uyindawo efana neWest Hollywood noma iHell's Kitchen lapho kunokwanda okuphezulu kwabantu be-LGBTQ. Kwesinye isikhathi ubhekana nezinsizwa ezilandelana ezibonakala sengathi zingabasebenzi bomgodi waseRuPaul.

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In 2019, U-Blued kudingeke ukuthi afake ukubhaliswa kafushane ngemuva kokulahlwa ngecala lokwehluleka ukuphoqelela ukuqinisekiswa kweminyaka, ukuveza amakhasimende asemancane ekuxhashazweni ngokocansi. Ekuqaleni yasungulwa ku- 2011 njenge “inguqulo engcono yeGrindr,”Ngokuhambisana nenkampani, kusukela lapho iba uhlelo lokusebenza lwesibili ngobukhulu bobungqingili emhlabeni 25 abasebenzisi abayizigidi emhlabeni wonke kusuka e-US kuya eBrazil, ETurkey naseRussia. “Inhloso yethu ukwakha indawo yokuhlala yedijithali indawo lapho abesilisa abazizwa befanelekile futhi besekelwa khona — futhi ngokunjalo nendawo lapho bengathola khona uMnu.. Kwesokudla,”Isikhulu sakwa-Hornet uChristof Wittig.

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• Bona inhloso yethu ubusuku bamaphrofayili anempilo we 2019 uhlu lomphakathi wezenhlalo!
• Kufana nokuthi "UGrindr uwele ngeFacebook, nokungeziwe,”Omunye owayekade esebenza wangitshela.

Isiboniso sakho sokuhlala sizokwethula bonke abantu abahlanganyele nephrofayela yakho, futhi uzokhetha ukunamathisela kubo noma cha. Uma wenza kanjalo, bese udlulisela ohlotsheni lwesixhumi esibonakalayo sokuthumela imiyalezo wonke amakhasimende wohlelo lokusebenza olwazi kahle phezulu 20 ama-movie ezitabane nge. Kodwa ke, kufanele ukhathele izinhlelo zokusebenza, noma ube nobuchwepheshe obubi ngabo, kudala lokhu kungaboni ngaso linye — ingabe kufanele uyeke ukwenza le nto ekwenza ungajabuli noma ulondoloze ukwenza imizamo unethemba lokuthi izoveza okuthile ngolunye usuku?

“Abantu basebenzisa njalo lolu limi lokusebenza ngempumelelo, futhi ngifana ngaso sonke isikhathi, ‘Well imvelo friendly for what? Ukujola kwezinhlelo zokusebenza akubonakali kuyindlela enobungane yemvelo yokukhiqiza ubudlelwano, okungenani akukho ngaphezu kokuphola kwendabuko, futhi mhlawumbe kuncane kakhulu, uncike ekutheni ubuza kubani. Ziyindlela ephumelelayo yokudlulisa ngendlela yezinketho zakho.

Owesifazane obheke ukuphepha futhi le kuyindlela yokufanisa abantu abangashadile nothando lwezinhlanga ezingama-latina. Ngenkathi abafana bezizwa bephephile ngenye yezimakethe, 50s, ngabesifazane besifazane. Ngabantu bangempela ukwenza ubudlelwano obunengqondo kumawebhusayithi wokuqomisana on-line futhi bangena 2003, ibalula emhlabeni wonke. Kulula ukuthola imibhangqwana ejwayelekile yobungqingili ukuthola, yabelana ngendawo yakho kusihlwa ngokuthumela imiyalezo!

Ekungabikho kwemikhuba ecacile, abantu kumane kufanele bakuphikise. Imvamisa ayikho indlela yokwazi ngokunembile ukuthi umuntu ufunani, ngaphandle kokuthi basho ngokusobala. Ukuba khona kwezinhlelo zokusebenza kukhubaza abantu ekufuneni amathuba ezothando aphezulu kakhulu.

Uma usudale i-akhawunti, ukhetha iwindi lesikhathi uma ulapho ngemuva kwalokho unqume ukuthi ungathanda ukwenzani, 'njengekhofi' noma 'isiphuzo' noma 'ukuzijabulisa'. Lokhu kushesha kuyaqabula ezweni elidabukisayo lokuthi 'siyoke sihlangane noma sithandane kabi ngamaviki ngaphambi kokulahlekelwa inzalo? Ngakho-ke noma yini oyithandayo, futhi noma ngabe ufunani, bheka inombolo yethu yezinhlelo zokusebenza ezinhle kakhulu zokuphola ekunikezeni khona manje. Sizoqhubeka nokubuyekeza lolu hlu njengoba izinhlelo zokusebenza ezintsha zikhishwa, ngoba izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola ziqala ukucacisa kakhulu ezingakusiza ekutholeni umngane ofanele. Kungakho silapha esingakusiza ngaphambi kokuthi uqale ukuswayipha kwakho. Bheka ukubheka kwethu kokukhetha kwezinhlelo zokusebenza zobudlelwano eziphumelela kakhulu ekunikezeleni ngokudla okuhlukahlukene nokuqondiswa.