Kungani I-Spark Yokuqomisana eku-inthanethi Ingagcini Uma Usuhlangane Ngomuntu

Amathiphu angaphansi akuyona indlela eyodwa yokuthola uthando; ngokuvamile izindaba ziwela nje endaweni ngezindlela ezingalindelekile. Kepha ngithemba ukuthi bakukhuthaza ukuthi wenze okweqile ekuqomisaneni online, nolwazi ukuze ube nobuchwepheshe obunenzuzo.

Okokuqala, amasethi wabantu axhunywe kuTinder, Fanisa, futhi i-eHarmony inkulu kunezinyunithi zabantu abaxhunywe kumama womuntu noma umngani omuhle. Amasethi ahlukile amakhulu abalulekile kuwo wonke umuntu owenza ucwaningo . Amayunithi amakhulu okukhetha abaluleke kakhulu kubantu abazithola befuna into eyodwa engajwayelekile noma ekhandlayo ukuthola, yingakho ukuqomisana nge-inthanethi kubaluleke kakhulu kuzitabane nabathandana nabo kunalokho isayithi lokuphola ngethenda ngesi-russian yenzelwe abesilisa nabesifazane . Uhlelo olujwayelekile lobudlelwano, okulamulelwe ngumndeni nabangane, Sekuyisikhathi eside kuchazwa ukuthi kufanelekile ekukhetheni omlingani. Uhlelo lwasekhaya lubekelwe ngokwesiko, ngokwengxenye, ekuvuseleleni nasekuqhakambiseni mhlawumbe imiphumela yokuvuna eyamukelekayo emphakathini kwezobuchwepheshe obusha . Ukuhlangana ngendlela yabangane nomndeni kuhlinzekelwe kuqinisekisa ukuthi noma ngubani ongaba umlingani uhlolwe futhi waqinisekiswa ngoshintsho oluthembekile.

Idatha Nezindlela

• Ukungasebenzisi izingalo zakho kuthakazelisa ikakhulukazi kulo lonke ubhadane lwegciwane, okusiletha engxenyeni yethu elandelayo.
• Amabha, ama-nightclub, nezinye izindawo zomhlangano wendabuko nazo zingaqala ukuvulwa, kodwa-ke bavikeleke kangakanani?
• I-UrSafe ayinazintende, uhlelo lokusebenza lokuphepha kwangasese olusebenze ngezwi olunezinketho zama-on-line daters afuna ukuhlangana nemidlalo yawo uqobo.
• I-Tinder ikuvumela ukuthi uxwayise ngasese izinkampani eziphuthumayo uma usuku olungenampilo ikakhulukazi.

Ukuqomisana okuku-inthanethi kwakuqala ukuzizwa njengesihogo sosuku lweGroundhog Day esingapheli. Ukubuyela emuva ku-inthanethi ukuthandana 2016 ngazizwa sengathi ngidlulisela ekhaya ngemuva kwekolishi. I-Tinder ibe yimpumelelo enkulu endaweni yokuphola eku-inthanethi kangangokuba izinhlelo zokusebenza eziyisigidi zamakhophi zaziqhakazile, ngalinye linenkinga yalo. Ngibhalisele iBumble, Ingibe, Inhlangano, Ikhofi Lihlangana neBagel, Inzondo, I-Happn, Jswipe, Feeld noRaya. Ngabe kujwayelekile yini ukuba namakhamera endlini manje no-OLD ngiyazi ukuthi unomlando we-OLD. Lesi yisibonelo esisodwa kuphela esingajwayelekile sale micabango ebanga ubuchwepheshe obufushane bokuphola kusuka kuHinge kumuntu obebonakala ejwayelekile, ekhangayo, uphumelele futhi wavuma kuphrofayili yakhe ukuthi ubheke ubuhlobo obubucayi, kepha bekungakaze kugxeke futhi kube ngokocansi kuphela.

Kepha lapho kubhola phansi ezindaweni ezithile, kwavela ezinye izindaba ezibalulekile zokuhlukunyezwa nxazonke. Ihlinzeka ngemininingwane emincane yabantu abadingekayo ukuze babe nomhlangano womuntu ngamunye. Ayikho iphrofayili ende, kungabikho ukuxoxa futhi, isithombe esilufifi. Ngemuva kwalokho, abasebenzisi baceliwe ukukala ukwaneliseka kwabo ngesipiliyoni. Lapho ukhulisa iphrofayili yakho yokuqoma online, qiniseka ukuthi awamukeli igama lakho lokugcina, ulwazi lokuxhumana, izidlaliso, noma izibambo zokuxhumana nabantu.

Izinhlelo zethu

Okwengeziwe kuthatha ukuphola, zama odadewethu amawebhusayithi, I-AskMen ne-Mashable. I-AskMen inezilayi eziningi zephayi lobudlelwano, kufaka phakathi enye yezindawo ezingcono kakhulu zabesifazane nabesilisa, kepha ngokungeziwe amasayithi ikakhulukazi eyentsha, ukuxhuma, nokuthola ubudlelwano. I-Mashable ngokungeziwe inikeza uqobo lwayo kuthatha amawebhusayithi obudlelwano obedlula bonke owesilisa nowesifazane, kepha futhi ihlinzeka ngamathani wezingcezu ezincane, kufaka phakathi okuhle kakhulu kwama-geek nama-nerds nokuhamba phambili kwabantu be-LGBTQ — nokunye okuningi, kakhulu. Manje njengoba usufunde iphuli yokuphola futhi amehlo akho kuloyo muntu okhethekile, sekuyisikhathi sokuluma inhlamvu futhi ufinyelele kubo ngokweqiniso. Ukufanisa kuzokuvumela ukuthi ucwayize ilunga esikanye nalo mahhala, futhi Inala Yenhlanzi ayikhokhisi ngokuthumela imiyalezo. Kuzinhlelo zokusebenza eziningi, ukuthumela imiyalezo futhi kuvame ukuba mahhala uma abasebenzisi ngamunye bethandana. Nokho, amakhasimende wamahhala athola ukuthandwa okuningi ngosuku, neHinge ivinjelwe ikakhulukazi.

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