Akukuhle kahle. Uma kukhulunywa ngokufuna nokuvuma bafuna usizo, mubi kakhulu kunamanyuzi anentloko yengulube. Okokuqala nje, abathandi ukukhuluma ngemizwa yabo futhi bakhetha ukulondolozela imizwa ebuhlungu ehambisana nokuhlukaniswa kwamabhodlela ngaphakathi. Okwesibili, kungaba ukuziqhenya noma cha, i-ego, noma okwehlukile, bafuna ukukholelwa ukuthi bangakwazi ukuphatha noma yisiphi isimo ngokuzimela noma ngabe bathola okuncane noma abanaso. Hlanganisa lama nuances maqondana nokulungisa ubuhlobo, futhi amadoda ambalwa impela akhiqiza inani elikhulu lamaphutha asemqoka kakhulu avame ukucindezela izintombi zawo zangaphambili kude. Manje yini amadoda okufanele ayenze ehlukile? Abafana kufanele bakusingathe kanjani ukwahlukana? bukela isithombe sentombazane yami Ngabe nina zihlobo nani buddies niyakuxhasa ukukhetha umlingani? Yenza hers? Uma amalungu omndeni angabaza ubudlelwano bakho bangakwazi ukukuvimbela ukuvimba ukuthi yini okungeyona yale bhizinisi, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi bamane bakwenze lokhu ekunakekeleni. Bayazi ukuthi ufanele ukwedlula noma ngubani futhi ngakho-ke bangaba nombono onenhloso enkulu ngezimpilo zothando ukwedlula wena.
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Into yokuqala okudingeka uyenze ngokuvamile ukudala ibanga phakathi kwakho ne-ex. Khona manje, Ubudlelwano bakho bukhulu kakhulu lapho nobabili ekuqaleni nibuthana noma niqala ukuthandana nginembile, manje, awusiyo indoda intombi yakho yakudala ethambekele noma wathandana nayo. Ukube wawukhona, Usajoyinwa ngenjabulo enjabulweni. Akukona ukuthi isoka lakho noma intombi yakho ikukhumbule ngempela uze usondelene nendoda okade uyiyo ngenkathi ihlanya futhi inothando oluhle ngawe, futhi bezingekho izikhala phakathi kwendlela yakho yobudlelwano.
Ungabuyisa isithandwa sakho noma intombi yakho yentombazane ngokungayinaki ngoba izoqala ukucabanga ukuthi uzizwa kanjani. Uma umbonisa ukuthi usukulungele ukumlinda noma ngabe kuzothatha isikhathi esingakanani, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi angazama futhi acabangele maqondana nokwahlukana ngasikhathi sinye. Nokho, kuvame ukwenzeka ukuthi lapho ubheke phambili kuye ukuthi akunikeze elinye ithuba, angaphuma ekugcineni, zijabulise nabangane bakho bakudala noma mhlawumbe umfana omusha. Lesi yisizathu sokuthi ungayeki impilo yakho kulandela ukuhlukana kwakho. Ungenza njengoba naye enza. Ungaphuma ekugcineni, Zithokozise ngamaphansi akho noma nomndeni wakho futhi. Lapho azi ukuthi ujabule kanye nempilo yakho, kungenzeka ukuthi aqale ukuzibuza ukuthi ngabe uthathe isinqumo esihle yini noma ngenye indlela ngokuhlukana nawe. Nokho, ngenkathi uthokozela impilo yakho yansuku zonke njengoba kushiwo, ungazami ukuzibandakanya nenye intombazane njengoba lesi senzo esizobe sibulala amathuba akho okuba umbuyise.
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Abafana abaningi banobunzima bokufunda izindlela zokushiya intombi yakho yodwa. Awukwazi ukumshayela ucingo. Awukwazi ukumthumelela i-imeyili. Awukwazi ukumthumelela imiyalezo, ukuze ubone ukuthi wenza. Lezi yizenzo ezimbi kakhulu ongazithatha njengamanje, ngoba i-ex yakho ayifuni ukuzwa ngaphakathi kuwe. Khona manje, ufuna uhlupheke. Uthanda ukucabanga ukuthi uzwe uhlobo olufanayo lobuhlungu nokuphelelwa yithemba azizwa ngakho, nokuthi ngokuhlukana nawe wakubangela lobuhlungu. Ngokungakhulumi naye noma yini, unikeza lokho kubukeka. Futhi cishe uzoba sezinhlungwini. Mhlawumbe ukhathazekile ukuthi isoka lakho noma intombi yakho kufanele iphume nabangane bese iqala ukwanga lo muntu wokuqala ayibonayo. Phela, imicabango yokuziphindisela ivamile ngemuva kokukopela. Kepha kufanele uphumule, thatha umoya ojulile, bese ukhohlwa. Vumela ukuhlukana kube ukuzixazulula ngokunikeza yena ngaso sonke isikhathi nesikhathi asidingayo.
