'Mina abhekana ngayo le nhlekelele njengawo wonke amanye ukwenza’

“Une izinsuku zakho ezinhle futhi izinsuku ezimbi kodwa ukufunda ukubhekana. Yini omunye umuntu angakwazi ukwenza kodwa ukwamukela iqiniso ababayo? Kwakungelula (ke), akulula ngisho manje. Ngaqonda ukuthi akekho angakusiza kulokhu kodwa. Lena impi yakho.”

Eminyakeni eyisishiyagalombili edlule umyeni Subhashini sika uColonel Vasanth ukuthi ukholo lokulwa amasosha e Kashmir.

Today, yena linikeza ithemba abafelokazi ka jawans ibutho abalahlekelwa ukuphila kwabo lisemsebenzini.

July 31, 2007. UColonel Vasanth wayehola 9th Maratha Infantry ngokumelene amasosha e-Uri mkhakha Kashmir. Ngemva impi ebabayo, Waguqulwa ukholo. Wayengumuntu nje 40 ubudala ngaleso sikhathi.

Umkakhe abasha Subhashini, kanye namadodakazi abo amabili kancane, wazama ukubhekana nenhlekelele wakhe siqu ngesibindi. “Mina babhekana njengawo wonke amanye ukwenza,” Uthi ngesizotha.

Eminyakeni eyisishiyagalombili zidlulile, okwamanje “une izinsuku zakho ezinhle futhi izinsuku ezimbi kodwa ukufunda ukubhekana. Yini enye nalowo makenze kodwa ukwamukela iqiniso ababayo? Ngiyavuma kwakungelula futhi, nangemva kweminyaka eyisishiyagalombili, akulula. Ngaqonda akekho angakusiza kulokhu kodwa. Lena impi yakho,” Subhashini uthi.

Yakhetha banqobe usizi wakhe ngokuzama ukusiza abesifazane abanjengaye nokuqhubeka inkanuko yakhe. Dance kwakuyinqubo 'umlingani wakhe’ kusukela ngineminyaka emihlanu futhi ngikhuthele, ngaleso sikhathi zosizi, kwaba 'ihange' yakhe.

“Yingakho ngithi intsha ukuba wokuzilibazisa okuyinto benza nje ugqozi hhayi imali noma udumo. It angakunika eziningi ukuthula kwengqondo, ekugcineni, ukuthi kubaluleke ngaphezu imali.”

Ngo-October 2007, ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngemva kokubulawa Vasanth sika, Subhashini isiqale Vasantharatna Foundation for Ubuciko ekubonile iphupho bobabili ukuthi sike saxoxa yini izikhathi eziningi lapho esaphila. Manje njengoba Vasanth wayengaselona naye, wanquma ukuqamba ngemva kwakhe. It has abaphatheli ezimbili, Subhashini futhi Vasanth'S umzala; abafowabo nodadewabo kukhona abeluleki ebhodini.

The michael Kors esidayisa esitolo ekuqaleni ukuthi lo mdlalo, Front Thulile, eyenziwa Subhashini ne oluthile lochwepheshe idrama abaculi. Ukusebenza lokuqala, eyayihlelwe Army Amakhosikazi’ Welfare Association e Delhi, wabona ke UNgqongqoshe wezokuVikela A K Antony njengoba isivakashi abakhulu.

Subhashini ahlelwa play futhi wadlala indima abaholayo. Le ndaba ngamakhosikazi ibutho, kubonakala ngeso izizukulwane ezintathu, nokuthi isimo sesishintshile eminyakeni, kusukela pre Independence India nesikhathi Kargil.

Umdlalo kwakugxile Asha, Ubaba walilwela inkululeko e Subhash Chandra Bose sika Indian National Army. Umyeni wakhe kwaba ukholo sebutho nendodana yakhe, isiphathimandla enqobile empini Kargil.

Ayeyibhalile play lapho Vasnath esaphila kodwa, ngaphambi kokuba akubone enkundleni, kwathi lapho umuntu edlula. It zabathinta nabo bonke abakhuleka usibukele lapho Subhashini muva ongumfelokazi ngikwenzile esuka enhliziyweni yakhe.

“Ngangenza indima abaholayo futhi ngilahlekelwa umyeni wami kule mpi e-play futhi. Ngaba Asha futhi Asha baba nami. Kwaba kancane scary lapho engikwenzayo wabhala zagcwaliseka. Esikhundleni ngokomzwelo kokuphazamisa kimi, zonke ukuprakthiza futhi ukusebenza sokugcina kwaba uhlobo engalawuliwe.’

Ngemva Delhi, benza play e Bengaluru njengoba wokuqongelela izimali trust futhi ngawakhulisa ezingaphezu kuka R michael Kors Cyber ​​Monday ukudayiswa 3 lakh. Lokhu kwaba imali imbewu isisekelo. Kancane kancane, imali eningi waqala kwakuconsa e.

Inhloso Subhashini kwakungu ukusebenzisa isisekelo ukusiza abafelokazi we jawans kuzo zonke izindlela kunokwenzeka. Lapho eseneminyaka nge Vasanth, izinduna zempi’ abafazi esetshenziswa ukuhlangabezana njalo ngenyanga; nabo bahlangana imindeni jawan sika.

Wabona ukuthi balithole ithuba ukuhlangabezana nabafazi 'ukholo; babengesibo yesimiso njalo.

“'ukholo’ mikhaya bayibukele kuphi. Bamane wanyamalala uma jawan namkha isiphathiswa esingameleko attained nokufel 'ukholo. Ibutho welula emindenini ukholo kuphela ngezikhathi ezithile lapho bebizelwa futhi ahlonishwe amasevisi abayeni bawo. Nakuba engeyena umzamo ngamabomu, nabafazi nemikhaya ukhohlwe ngokushesha ngemva kokubulawa lomuntu,” Subhashini uthi.

Subhashini esetshenziswa ukuba izingxoxo eside nomyeni wakhe uhlobo lokuphila nabafazi kwadingeka aphinde aphile abayeni babo afela empini. Lapho eneminyaka engu-umkhuzi wamasosha, ababenakho ithuba ukuhlangabezana umfelokazi jawan e-Belgaum (Karnataka).

“It sangithinta inhliziyo ngempela ukubona indlela wentombi, ababenezingane ezimbili ezincane, wayezama sibhekane nokuphila. Ukuba ungumfelokazi yasemakhaya India akulula; kunzima ukuba banqobe inhlamba. Angase bakwemukele le nhlekelele kodwa umphakathi ayivumeli wakhe ukuzilimaza lakhe langempela.”

Lokhu kwamkhathaza Subhashini kangangokuba watshela Vasanth yesifiso sakhe handhold nabo yokushintsha umqondo ogcwele nomphakathi mayelana abafelokazi. Lo mbhangqwana kangangokuthi wanquma ukuqala inhlangano ukusiza laba besifazane nemindeni yabo. But, ngaphambi ababengakwenza, beshonelwa Subhashini.

Uma Vasantharatna Foundation got ezinye izimali, isinyathelo sokuqala Subhashini yayiyizimvu ukuhlinzeka imfundo imifundaze izingane oyise abulawelwa ukholo. bakhetha 20 izingane kusukela iqembu yobudala 5 15.

Lapho Subhashini wathola ukuthi uhulumeni futhi inikeza lolu hlobo ukweseka, Foundation banquma ukusiza imindeni ukwenza umsebenzi ephepheni ukuze uthole Isikhwama uhulumeni. Isisekelo, Okwamanje, uyaqhubeka esiza 50 izingane aphishekele imfundo ephakeme.

Eminyakeni yokuqala, kwaba onzima Subhashini ukwenza wonke umsebenzi eyedwa nje umphathi itoho usizo. Today, enendawo umphathi esigcwele futhi kwesinye isisebenzi ukusebenzela Foundation.

Eminyakeni emithathu edlule, waqala elinye isinyathelo ezithakazelisayo lapho Foundation sesihlela emakamu kabili Isaphulelo inkohliso michael Kors ngonyaka ukuze abafelokazi we jawans ehlanganyele ne Pegasus Institute of Excellence (run by umngane Subhashini sika, uCaptain Ravi). Pegasus, elisebenza ngayo izinkampani ezahlukene, wadala module ukuze abafelokazi ukuthi ngabe ukubafundisa uzoshiya ithonye ukuphila kwawo, cocooned emizaneni, uphinde ukwazi ukuzethemba kwabo nokuqiniseka, bese uqale ukuphupha waphinda.

Subhashini wathola ukuthi lezi abafelokazi “angavalelwa ekhishini futhi ungalokothi bathola imvume baphume ngisho emakamelweni umdwebo. Kwakubalulekile ukubeka umbono ka ukuphupha ezingqondweni zabo. ukuthenga black Friday michael Kors Zihlala ukuthi India zakudala lapho indawo yomfelokazi ibe eduze umshanelo”.

Kwakuyinselele enkulu Subhashini ukwenza lezi abesifazane bephuma ezindlini zabo futhi uba khona ezinhlelweni ekamu ngisho usuku. Ukuze ikamu kuqala 2012, kwadingeka kuqala ukukholisa abazali, omama emthethweni nabafowabo emthethweni.

Ngisho nabesifazane babengabahwebi abasabayo khona ekamu. Ekugcineni, Subhashini kwadingeka ukwesabisa ukuthi lwesisekelo ukuhoxisa scholarship inikezwe izingane zabo.

“I ultimatum wasebenza futhi bafika, kunalokho obusolisayo, kodwa uma ekamu emaphethelweni Bangalore, bajabula ukuze abazange ufune ukubuyela. Zonke 30 kubo babe yizinkulungwane Kargil impi abafelokazi bonke wavuma ukuthi, ku 12 iminyaka babehlala njengoba abafelokazi, kwaba ukuvakasha wabo wokuqala nezingane zabo (50 wabo). Bathi kwezwakala sengathi uthengisa abantu evamile okokuqala, ukuthi bangakwazi futhi behleka khona bezikholisela. Konke Kwakubalulekile kubantu ababezizungezile babe ukuthi wayeshonelwe abayeni babo futhi babengabafelokazi ezingenamsebenzi.”